Traci's style is comparable to the American Medium, John Edward. Thus, it is casual. Traci will summarize what she is seeing often into question form for you. When who is coming through is identified, brief messages will be given, and then you will be ENCOURAGED TO ASK QUESTIONS OF WHO'S COMING THROUGH! Names come up frequently. This is SO VERY IMPORTANT - when a name comes up, Traci will ask if you've known anyone of that name. Please just answer the question.
Traci prefers to look at your questions and concerns, so have your list ready to go! You'll get the most out of your time by clearly stating what it is you wish to know about. Traci does not respond well to clients who state, "It doesn't matter what we do. Just tell me what you know (see)." Your investment into the reading contributes to the success.
Past life sessions look into a life/lives you have lived at another time, often in a different space/place. They are NOT to be considered as 'regressions' and you are NOT put into a hypnotic state. It is simply Traci checking-in to your Akashic Records/Book of Life/Hall of Records to seek information.
Traci's readings come from Spirit in the 'spirit-of' personal enlightenment. To some recipients, they also provide entertainment and certainly, enjoyment. Every beneficiary of a reading has free will to choose as they see fit for their own life. Individuals are responsible for their interpretation of the reading as well as how or if they incorporate it into their own life via thought, word and deed.
There are many psychics and Mediums available. Selecting a legitimate, experienced person honors both you, and those whom have passed. Things to consider include searching for a Reader that:
Expect to pay a reasonable fee. A high-dollar amount (mediums charging several hundred to thousands of dollars) does not necessarily correlate to receiving a phenomenal reading. Remember that psychics and Mediums are most-often self-employed, and do not receive benefits. They often do not employ a staff. Nor do they read for a traditional 40-hour/week schedule as do most full-time workers in the US. In fact, the majority of readers known to Traci at most, offer 5 - 15 readings per week. There is more 'work' behind your appointment - setting it via misc. emails or phone calls, billing, etc. Be aware that most psychics/Mediums take time preparing for the reading, and de-escalate from the reading. The work begins before your appointment and often extends after.
Traci values an ethical approach to mediumship. In having read for decades, she owns an accurate 'feel' for potential clients for which she may be a good match with, for purposes here, for one's that will not work out well:
Things you may wish to consider in preparation:
The format for a Medium reading (connecting with the dead):
1) With your assistance* the person coming through will be identified as best as can be
2) Brief messages will be given to you from that person/animal
3) YOU WILL BE ENCOURAGED TO ASK QUESTIONS OF THE PERSON COMING THROUGH.... this means: have questions prepared for persons you hope to hear from!!!
During your reading, behavior Traci advises she might exhibit in all seriousness:
"I have allergies and may need to sneeze or blow my nose. With the latter I will certainly excuse myself, and blow my nose."
"If reading for you during my morning, I will be drinking coffee, or later iced tea or water. I will let you know that I need a drink. I will say, 'Excuse me please, I need to take a sip of my coffee.' I may get up from my reading chair to pour more coffee or to refill my water glass. This means I you may hear ice cubes dropping into my glass."
"Upon occasion my door, as I generally do phone readings from home, will be knocked on. I will get up from my chair where I usually read to see who is at the door. I have no staff here. I will apologize to you in all sincerity for the intrusion, and most generally will offer extra time for your final questions/concerns."
"I have pets, and like yours, mine make sounds... sometimes they fight, sometimes they meow or bark, or do something silly. Frankly I find that this occurs often during opportune times when Spirit wishes for me to enunciate their message!"
"I am human. I would hope that if you need a drink, you'll refresh yourself. And if you need to use the bathroom during your reading that you excuse yourself and do so. I would hope that your pets behave as they do, or not, and that if your doorbell rings, you answer it - particularly if you live alone. I hope that if it's your habit, that you're in your workout clothes or p.j.'s, and if you've not brushed your teeth, I won't have a clue, nor does it matter to me being that we're on the phone."
"I am a happy, easy-going person, and I consider myself to be flexible, casual and non-judgmental. If these behaviors and actions bother you, I AM NOT THE MEDIUM FOR YOU, and likewise, you are not a client for me."
*Readings are not a one-way-street. Blind Readings (which occur in a research setting) occur with NO interaction between the Medium a and the sitter (client). In a reading with a paid client, with Traci's session there IS interaction. Traci will look at what she is receiving, interpret it, and summarize it for you. This saves significant time as what she sees (hears, smells, feels as in senses and by touch, etc.), may not at all be how she actually describes and presents that information to you.
There are a number of things to avoid with Mediums in-general:
A VERY important note from Traci about readings: "I am not a Medium who is able to 'work-on-demand.' That is to say, I do not take orders from clients as to whom they expect to hear from. Spirits come through as they see fit. As a Medium I am simply the middle-(wo)man, delivering messages. Although you will have opportunity to ask questions of those that come through, I've no control over who comes through, nor do I have control over the order in which they arrive. My experience has been that for clients who are insistent-upon-their-own-way, the process does not flow well.
During Psychic Readings, a similar premise holds true: I will tell you what I am receiving. There are times that this does not resonate with clients. Clients will be charged whether or not agreeing with the information.
People willing to be open to what is present, or to place it on-hold to review later, or to let-go of what does not resonate should do well with the process overall."
During your reading, behavior you might refrain from:
Thoughts for Making the Most of Your Reading Time, before & after...